May 01 / Simcha

Not Under My Roof!

In her book Not Under My Roof: Parents, Teens and the Culture of Sex, sociologist Amy Schalet traces the roots of parents’ divergent attitudes, and explores the way family culture shapes not just sex but also alcohol consumption and parent-teen relationships.  Her work challenges American parents — for whom teenage sex is something to be feared and forbidden, and often a source of family conflict — to consider different, and possible better ways to love, respect and care for our children.

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Mar 24 / Simcha

Talking to Teens About Sex (Apter)

Terri Apter, PhD, a University of Cambridge researcher and leading authority on mothers and teen girls, offers a four-point plan to improve your next conversation.  These ideas are taken from the May 2009 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine

I would only add that many of these ideas are equally applicable to speaking with your teenage sons about sex.

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